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Public Notice: In Memoriam – Surrogate Michael R. Dressler

It is with profound sadness that the staff of the Bergen County Surrogate’s Court acknowledges the passing of our Surrogate, Michael R. Dressler (8/2/1952 – 12/4/2025). His loss is deeply felt throughout our office and the Bergen County community.

For more than a quarter century, Surrogate Dressler served the people of Bergen County with compassion, integrity, and unwavering dedication. His leadership and his belief that every family should be treated with dignity, especially in their most difficult moments, set the standard for our work.

As we mourn his passing, we also reaffirm our commitment to carrying forward his memory with a special place on this evolving site and the values he championed: professionalism, kindness, and respect for every resident who turns to this Court for help. We are grateful to have had the honor of working with him and will strive each day to continue his legacy of service.

We extend our heartfelt condolences to his wife Agata, his son Nikias, his brother Raymond, his sister Jeanne, and to all who loved him. Should you wish to view Surrogate Dressler's Obituary, you may do so here: Obituary of Michael R. Dressler.

Meet Surrogate Michael R. Dressler

Michael R. Dressler was born on August 2, 1952 at Holy Name Hospital in Teaneck, New Jersey to Margaret and Raymond Dressler of Palisades Park, New Jersey. After the family moved to Cresskill in 1955, where Michael still resides today, his younger brother Raymond William Dressler was born.

A mere recital of a personal history seems inadequate when detailing the life of Michael R. Dressler, Bergen County Surrogate. His story, bordered by tragedy and triumph, is propelled by courage, tenacity and dedication.

Throughout his tenure, Surrogate Dressler has combined deep personal resilience with innovative community service and careful fiscal responsibility. His work has transformed the Surrogate’s Court into a modern, accessible, and service-focused office for all Bergen County residents.

From overcoming a devastating spinal injury as a teenager to serving as Surrogate Judge since January 1, 1997, Michael R. Dressler’s life is an example of what determination and public service can achieve.

At a Glance

  • Born August 2, 1952, Teaneck, New Jersey.
  • Life-changing spinal injury in 1970, followed by years of rehabilitation.
  • Associate’s Degree – Bergen Community College (1974).
  • Graduate – Fairleigh Dickinson University (1976).
  • Law Degree – Seton Hall University School of Law (1979).
  • Elected Councilman, Cresskill (1974).
  • Elected Mayor of Cresskill (1983).
  • County Counsel to Bergen County; Counsel to NJ Sports & Exposition Authority (1991).
  • Elected Bergen County Surrogate – November 5, 1996.
  • Re-elected: 2001, 2006, 2011, 2016, and 2021.

Early Life, Tragedy, and Triumph

Michael R. Dressler

In June of 1970, with high school graduation only days away, Mike and classmates from Cresskill High School, after their senior prom, celebrated with a trip to Seaside Park at the Jersey Shore. The summer temperature was soaring; the ocean inviting. Mike decided to take a swim. He dove into the surf into what he thought was ten (10) feet of water. He was wrong. The murky ocean camouflaged a sand bar lying a mere two (2) feet below the surface. Mike hit the sandbar solidly, shattering cervical vertebrae.

He was pulled out of the ocean unable to move. Mike was rushed to the hospital. Last rites were administered and his parents were told he would not survive the night. Exhibiting characteristics that would punctuate his life, Mike refused to die.

He underwent grueling physical therapy at Bergen Pines Hospital (now Bergen Regional Medical Center) for nearly two (2) years. In 1972 he was sent home, with doctors assuring him and his family that he would be permanently paralyzed, never able to leave his bed. Mike refused to let mere medical science narrow his world or define his future. With family, friends and neighbors from Cresskill rallying to his side, ramps were built and doorways were widened to accommodate a wheelchair.

Mike escaped the darkness. He purchased a customized van and relearned to drive. He went back to school, receiving an Associate’s Degree from Bergen Community College in 1974. He continued his education at Fairleigh Dickinson University, graduating in 1976. In 1979 Mike received his law degree from Seton Hall University Law School.

Public Service and Election as Surrogate

At home in Cresskill, the town doctors told Mike he could never leave. He was elected Councilman in 1974. In 1983 at age 31 Mike was elected mayor of Cresskill. The same year the Board of Freeholders of Bergen County appointed Mike counsel to the County of Bergen. He was the youngest person ever appointed to that position. Following years in private practice, Mike, in 1991, was appointed counsel to the N.J. Sports and Exposition Authority.

In 1996 Mike Dressler decided to again enter the arena of public service. He entered the countywide contest for Bergen County Surrogate. His campaign, propelled by knowledge, experience, spirit and a motorized wheelchair, took him to the municipalities comprising Bergen County. On November 5, 1996, the people of Bergen County responded. Mike received over 154,000 votes, gaining victory. On January 1, 1997, Michael Dressler began a 5-year term as Surrogate of Bergen County.

His first term as Surrogate vividly highlights a public service philosophy that combines innovative community service with reasoned fiscal responsibility. Mike has established and expanded programs that directly assist those involved with Surrogate Court issues.

Guardianship Monitoring, Technology, and Historic Records

Guardianship Monitoring Program

During his first term, Surrogate Dressler created the first Guardianship Monitoring Program in Bergen County, utilizing volunteers recruited with the help of the AARP who would monitor the work of the court-appointed guardians, making sure they care for the frail and elderly as they promised they would. This program is now statewide.

In 2012, former U.S. Congressman Steven R. Rothman honored Surrogate Michael R. Dressler in the Congressional Record (Vol. 158, No. 17) , specifically addressing the importance of this work.

Technological Innovation

Michael R. Dressler spearheaded the migration of the Bergen County Surrogate’s Court’s form server that produces all documents—from letters testamentary to judgments on probate—from a simple UNIX system to a Microsoft environment in 1999 and then again to a virtual, County server in 2019.

He authorized the adoption of a program called the Surrogate’s Office Management System (SOMS) in 1999 and the overhaul of that program in 2019 by Foveonics Imaging Technologies. Michael R. Dressler has authorized the provider to image-enable the SOMS software by providing an interface for scanning new cases and a viewer interface to display imaged cases.

The Surrogate’s Court also maintains an intermingled account on behalf of minor children who have received money damages through Superior Court or through an inheritance. At present, that intermingled account is comprised of multi-million dollars held on behalf of those minor children to be released to them when they reach the age of eighteen. Surrogate Dressler has worked hard to ensure the highest rate of return of any of the twenty-one counties in New Jersey for many years.

Satellite Program and Countywide Outreach

Bringing Government to the People

Surrogate Dressler served as an advocate of education, promoting awareness of the probate process through his tour and through the publication of a comprehensive booklet entitled “How to Probate a Last Will & Testament in Bergen County”, now available to all Bergen County residents in English, Spanish and Korean. He showed that the duties and responsibilities of the Surrogate Court Judge extend beyond the walls of his own office in Hackensack.

As a means of bringing government to the people, in 1999 the Surrogate initiated Bergen County’s first Surrogate’s Court Satellite Program, operated without additional taxpayer cost. The goal of the program was to make the services of the Surrogate’s Court as accessible as possible to the people of Bergen County by meeting them in pre-identified public areas where the probate process could be easily conducted to make our operations more accessible throughout Bergen County.

In order to meet one of our clerks at a Satellite Office, a resident must first contact the court to notify the court of their interest in this program. Only then will that person be able to schedule an appointment to meet a clerk at one of eleven strategically placed satellite locations:

  • Cresskill Municipal Building – 67 Union Avenue
  • Emerson Municipal Building – 146 Linwood Avenue
  • Fair Lawn Municipal Building – 8-01 Fair Lawn Ave #206
  • Fort Lee Senior Citizen's Center – 319 Main Street
  • Norwood Borough Hall – 455 Broadway
  • Oakland Senior Center – 20 Lawlor Drive
  • Park Ridge Borough Hall – 53 Park Avenue
  • Ridgewood Municipal Library – 125 North Maple Avenue
  • River Vale Municipal Building – 406 River Vale Road
  • Rutherford Kipp Center – 176 Park Avenue
  • Wallington Borough Hall – 24 Union Boulevard

Outreach & Speaking Engagements

Since he was first eleted, Surrogate Michael Dressler visited community centers, local businesses and organizations throughout the year to promote education and understanding of serious issues such as the importance of wills, probate procedures, administration of estates, estate tax consequences, powers of attorney, medical directives and guardianships.

“As your Surrogate, I wish to help you to plan for the legacy that you will work a lifetime to achieve and to safeguard that legacy for future generations. As such, I propose a brief presentation to review these documents and the services of the Surrogate’s Court followed by a question and answer period.” - Michael R. Dressler

During the presentation, the Surrogate defined probate as the authentication of a Last Will & Testament, outlined the importance of having a Last Will & Testament, and stressed the importance of seeking legal counsel and potential tax consequences for those who die intestate (without a Last Will & Testament). During the presentation, the Surrogate expressed that sitting down with an attorney and drawing up a plan to protect one’s legacy, the money and property that one has worked a lifetime to achieve, is something we must all consider.

“What may work for one person may not work for the person sitting next to them,” said Judge Dressler. “There are no ‘cookie-cutter answers’ to estate planning; it is important to sit down with an attorney who understands what you are trying to do and who is going to give you feedback.”

During his presentation, Surrogate Dressler also commented on and answered questions related to the guardianship of minor children, adoptions, advance directives, living wills and estate taxes, as well as highlight historical information that includes but is often not limited to the following facts: the Surrogate's function, along with the County Clerk and the Sheriff, dates back to colonial times.

“It is my belief that the responsibilities of my position extend far beyond the walls of my office in Hackensack,” said Surrogate Dressler. “I firmly believe that time spent on education is extremely valuable and will help to ensure that our families will be taken care of after we are gone, to provide us with the confidence that our money and property will live on in a manner of our own design.”

Honoring 9/11 and Continued Service

In 2015, Michael R. Dressler worked with Cresskill's Mayor Benedict Romeo and former Bergen County Executive William Schuber to honor Port Authority Police officers Sgt. John Coughlin and Officer John Cortazzo, both residents of Cresskill, who died as a result of the attack on the World Trade Center on September 11, 2001, by helping to bring home one of the last pieces of World Trade Center steel.

Artifact #K-0008, as it has been cataloged, was one of the last remaining pieces of World Trade Center steel to be released by the Port Authority and transferred to any organization building a memorial. This artifact is a steel beam from the B2 area of the parking complex under the World Trade Center, which was also the location of the 1993 World Trade Center bombing on February 26, 1993. The beam is 48 inches tall and 48 inches wide.

You may wish to read more about this story here: Bergen County Town Receives 9-11 Steel Beam Today .

Michael R. Dressler has also served as President of the Constitutional Officers of New Jersey (COANJ) and presently serves as a member of the New Jersey Highlands Protection and Water Planning Council. He is a former member of the Board of Trustees of Rutgers University, a member of the National College of Probate Judges, and a member of the Board of Trustees for Holy Name Hospital in Teaneck.

Contact the Bergen County Surrogate’s Court

Michael R. Dressler served as Surrogate Judge of Bergen County from January 1997 to December 2025. He was deeply honored to serve our friends, neighbors, and families. If you have questions about probate, guardianships, adoptions, or any matter within the Surrogate’s jurisdiction, we encourage you to contact us.

Address:
Bergen County Surrogate’s Court
Two Bergen County Plaza, Suite 5000
Hackensack, NJ 07601

Phone: (201) 336-6700
Website: www.bergencountysurrogate.com

We remain committed to combining compassion, innovation, and fiscal responsibility to protect families and preserve the important legal and historical records entrusted to our care.